IN (SECURITY)

 

A few years back I remember reading the Facebook status of a friend of mine. In this post he described great things that were taking place in his life. To conclude his status he made a statement jabbing at those struggling with insecurity and then said these haunting words… “I have never had an issue with insecurity.”

Friends….let me clear up this LIE once and for all. 

Everyone HAS, DOES, or WILL deal with, struggle with, or fight hard to overcome insecurity. EVERYONE. 

I’m convinced that we live in a matrix of sorts.  This world with all its beauty also carries with it a perversion. All the things we are freely given in Christ, we are told by the world ; can only come from the latest clothes, a smaller figure, a large home, the latest technology and an income that affords us the luxuries of life. 

Let me clear; there is nothing wrong with wanting nice things. 

There is nothing wrong with having great success in your line of business. 

There is nothing wrong with enjoying the latest fashions and clothing yourself in fine fabrics. 

There is nothing wrong with traveling extensively and enjoying vacations in the most beautiful parts of this planet. (In fact, I’d settle for a weekend stay at the hotel down the street if it were up to me. Vacation for this mommy would be 48 hours of room service & non stop HGTV. Let it be, Lord….Let it be.)

There is nothing wrong with working hard to obtain degrees and letters behind your name. 

There is nothing wrong  with success. 

There is everything wrong with letting your success or lack thereof DEFINE YOU. 

We have this warped understanding of insecurity. 

It’s easy to see in a person who is crippled by their flaws and unable to move forward in life due to it. 

It’s easy to diagnosis a person who is consumed so much by jealousy that they’re unable to enjoy the pleasures and benefits of their own abilities and talents. 

It’s easy to point out insecurity in a person who uses manipulation as a way to keep another person bound and paralyzed under their control. 

But what we fail to realize is that PRIDE is just another form of insecurity. 

To be consumed IN the SECURITY of anything else than Christ is the opposite of Christ’s intention for our abundant living. 

Consumed by our problems , our accomplishments, our connections, our greatest shortcomings : it’s all insecurity. 

It is a difficult, intentional, consistent fight to deal with and conquer insecurity. 

Look at this verse in 2 Peter 1:3

“By His diving power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life.  We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory  and excellence.”

 

Did you read that? God has GIVEN us EVERYTHING we need for the life He intended us to live….a godly life. How do we receive and live out this truth ? By continuing to come to know him…the knowledge of him…the truth of Him. Can you imagine being so enamored by the awareness of the person of God that only His opinion of you is what matters? 

Today I encourage all of us to take a look at our lives and our perception of life. If anything : positive or negative, determines the way you feel about who you are, take time to research God’s thoughts about you & dive in security of the love of your soul. 

Pulling the Plug

 

I’m a thinker.

My mind often runs faster than I can keep up. 

Things to do. Things to dream. Things to read. Things to feel. 

There’s always something. 

I’ve often found comfort in the energy of social media. 

The pictures , the quotes, the tweets, the mingling.  It can be a simple pleasure for this creative mommy often confronted with the mundane routine of household duties, night time baths, menu planning and of course the never ending revolving door of laundry. 

But every now and again the constant noise gets to be too loud. 

No matter how calm the snapshots of oregon’s coastline, a quilt in the making, or even a cobbler fresh out of the oven….it’s the constant looking. What we gaze upon has the power to inspire us, change us or cause us to live in comparison.  I am a simple person….not always by choice…sometimes because simplicity is all I am afforded in this moment.  I’m content with that…until I fill my mind and heart with so much of the lives of others until I’ve become deaf to the pleasures & needs of my own life. 

I am not unplugging to clean my house, or spend more time with my children or even consecrate & study my Word. 

I am unplugging to be quiet. I am unplugging to stand in the mirror and tell myself “You’re worth it.” 

I am unplugging to read books and write in my journal.

I am unplugging to sit in front of a piano I don’t play very well & let the songs come pouring out. The odd, complex, rather annoying process I endure called songwriting. I love every agonizing moment. 

I am unplugging to dream about hikes with my love in the mountains of Tennessee. 

I am unplugging to thumb through Vogue & Instyle while circling make up and skin care products I will soon splurge on. 

I am unplugging because at times I am entirely too “plugged in” to everyone & everything else but ME. 

It may be for a few hours….a day…a week or two. 

But the quiet is beckoning me. 

See you soon. 

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Seeker Friendly

I’ve fallen in love with church again.

It happened on a Saturday night.

My husband was stuck at work while I was home with our two rambunctious children.

They were tying capes to their backs and jumping off the top bunk…just for fun.

They were laughing so loudly and without restraint there were times I mistook their shrieks of joy for screams of pain.

My patience begin to wear thin and with very little “extra” money, church was a good, cheap idea.

{Blasphemy}

I’d heard of this church MANY times.  I knew acquaintances who attended regularly. They cussed like sailors, got drunk on Saturday nights and posted pictures of their church bulletins on Sundays.  Certainly there couldn’t be much JESUS in this church.  At that moment, I didn’t really care.  We just needed to get out of the house.

I checked my children into their respective classes and found a seat towards the back of the auditorium.

The screen went black, the guitars began to strum and a young John Mayerish type fella began to lead a familiar worship song.    The couple to my left wasn’t moved. The couple behind me talked loudly about the taste of the coffee served in the multiple purpose room. No one was paying attention.

I didn’t care.  This was a ll the more reason for me to throw up my hands, toss my head back and truly attempt to pour out my heart to God in the hopes that He’d strengthen my weary mommy’s heart.

BAM!!! The presence of the Lord hit me smack in my face…like a “sloppy wet kiss” 🙂 There was such a sweet, intimate movement of the Lord’s Spirit. I didn’t feel like running, jumping, or yelling. All I could do was cry.  I couldn’t even form my mouth to sing. Sara Bareilles Jr began to sing “I know who goes before me, I know who stands behind.  The God of angel armies is always by my side. ” I was undone.

When worship concluded (all too soon let me add), I wiped my tears and sat down.

The sermon was on the topic of adversity.  It sunk in deep and I left refreshed.

But later that week I felt a drawing, a missing, a wanting to try this church out again.

That was 6 weeks ago.  3 years after deep church hurt, I have found myself feeling at home again at a “seeker friendly” church. How is this possible?  I’ve been a Charismatic pentecostal since birth.  I’m used to the resonating sound of a B3 organ, amens  to color the message, lengthy sermons that include some doctrinal reference , stockings that itch my legs, and a sea of colored suits & decorative accessories.

Here I am visiting and falling in love with a church where I have yet to see a woman wear a skirt. The “sermonic selections” are pop songs appropriately used to coincide with the days message.  The pastor looks like a model out of an Eddie Bauer catalog & goes by his first name …. (not pastor, elder, superintendent, bishop, reverend, apostle, minister, deacon)…..just his first name. And the altar call is not fueled by the fear of hell, but the invitation to a life of knowing Jesus and experiencing victory through Him.

It’s seeker friendly.  It’s not a watered down message.  Its the gospel of Jesus presented in a fashion that will draw, appeal to, and reach sinners.

For some reason, I’d felt guilty about the excitement I’d felt about being a part of this.  I felt like I was committing an unspoken sin by enjoying this 75 minute worship service that was purposely set up like a presentation as opposed to a secret club that would make sinners feel guilted into becoming apart of.

“Is this enough?” I thought to myself.

“Is this really church?”

“Is it really ok that the woman in front of me took her boots off & sat with her knees pressed to her chest the entire message?”

It wasn’t until this week while reading Luke that I got my answer.

“It is not the healthy who need a doctor , but the sick.  I have not come to call the righteous to repentance, but the sinners. “

Wow.

Perhaps I’ve become so accustomed to going to church with believers who have always been in church & know church protocol & behavior , so much to the point that it didn’t bother me that there weren’t any “sinners” among us.  Is not that the purpose of church?  I feel like I’m standing smack dab in the middle of the oddest turn of events.  Perhaps I’ve fallen in love with a church who can teach me the true meaning of the church.  Perhaps it’s time I experience growth by standing next to a man who just finished smoking weed in his car and hasn’t been to church since his 8th grade confirmation.  Perhaps this church can teach me growth by talking with a woman in the ladies room who goes out & gets drunk every Saturday night and comes to church just as faithfully on Sunday because she doesn’t feel judged.  Do I have confidence that Word of God can do His job without my intervention? Am I only comfortable in a church where sin is preached more than the gospel? (That’s a message all by itself) Perhaps I’ve come to this church to truly develop compassion for the person who wants nothing to do with “church” and desperately wants and needs Jesus without all the theology, hermeneutics, frills and rituals.  Perhaps I’ve come to this church because Jesus loves me too much to allow me to continue to build on a foundation of pride.

Whatever the reason, whatever the purpose, I am finally ready to go “all in” for a church building .  I’m ready to volunteer in the children’s area, get involved in outreach and pour my heart into service.  Not because I have so much to give this church, but because this church has so much to give….and I want to be a part.

Hi my name is Kelli & I am proud to attend a seeker friendly church.